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couch surfin’ with style

Whether you are bootstrapping a new venture or a busy young professional, a restricted budget often times means hotels and other “convenient” accommodations are out of the question.

Here’s how I’ve been couch surfing with style:

(a recent bed/office of mine in San Francisco, thanks Ryan)

1. There’s no shame in asking. Don’t stress about asking friends and family (or joining the CouchSurfing Project community) for a place to stay. It’s not unethical and is more common practice than you think. Be honest about what your needs are and you will find that most people will be happy to help out. Genuine generosity is good karma. Oh and let me know if you ever need a place to crash

2. Give at least 1 week notice. In most cases, an unexpected visit doesn’t go over well. Plan ahead and let everyone involved know what those plans are. A quick e-mail with your itinerary or phone call is enough, just make sure it’s not from the airport after you’ve arrived. It’s nice to follow-up to confirm a few days before arriving too, your friends and family have their own busy schedules that need to be respected. If your host lives with others they should know about your stay as well.

3. Come prepared. This may be obvious but I have been in a couple situations where a rushed packing job meant that I had to buy or, worse, borrow clothing, umbrellas, razors, etc. In our current political climate, this may mean that you will need to check-in luggage due to the carry-on restrictions (my toiletries for example, were surrendered to security on several occasions because of this). Check it twice and bring everything you need.

4. Leave no trace. Try to be a ghost throughout your stay. Clean up after yourself, consciously picking up anything you leave behind. It’s nice to have your toiletries together in a bag of some kind so that you can bring them with you to and from the bathroom. This is especially important if your host has housemates that may not be as keen on your stay. Doing a couple dishes is a good move too.

5. Share the costs. If your host offers food or drink and you accept, be sure to help share the cost.

6. Be flexible with your time. Carve out some time for miscellaneous, non-business related activities. Try to avoid being all business and no fun. This is tough if you or your host’s schedule is packed but it can be well worth it. Have fun.

7. Show your appreciation. Most important of all, send a thank you e-mail and take your host(s) out for dinner or drinks as often as possible.